Turkey presents endless attractions for the traveler; yet in these times I find people ask questions that express some hesitation.

"Is it safe to visit Turkey? After all, it’s a Muslim country. Is it likely we would be exposing ourselves to an act of terrorism if we visited Istanbul or elsewhere in the country?"

While it would be foolhardy to say terrorists may not strike anywhere in the world, the danger of an attack in Turkey is no greater than what you can assume about visiting any large country. Indeed, you could have the same concerns about visiting in the UK, the United States, Germany, Spain or a long list of other countries. It is true, however, that the likelihood of encountering trouble is greater in the extreme south east of the country in the land of the Kurds.

Though it’s normal to react with worry to the dramatic nature of television reports, the more realistic question might be:

"As an American traveling in a Muslim country, what can I do to make myself a welcome guest?"

The mere fact that you subscribe to our newsletter indicates you have a genuine interest in the world’s people and cultures. So express that interest whenever you can. Ask questions of your English-speaking guide and any other English speaking Turks you meet. Be modest about the United States, and be open minded about what you see.

If you visit a mosque, do as the Muslims do: leave your shoes outside, and if you’re a woman, cover your hair. Inside the mosque, be quiet and respectful. And wherever you are, if you want to make a bit of a special effort, learn how to say "please" (lutfen) and "thank you" (sagol) in Turkish.. Be prudent, of course, but leave your fears at home, along with your Rolex and three-carat stones.

I wonder if you have a story about a foreign trip you approached with a sense of trepidation? What did you learn once you were there, and what would you recommend to others who will be first-time visitors?